Crafting Love Stories: How Professional Matchmakers Curate the Perfect Matches?

Matchmaking has been there in our country for years. Earlier it used to be the elderly family members trying to set you up with like-minded individuals known to them whereas in today’s times, this responsibility has been undertaken by professionalmatchmakers. A professional matchmaker curates perfect matches for their clients and helps make their lives happy and joyful.

How Do Professional Matchmakers Curate Perfect Matches?

Conduct initial interview to gauge the level of commitment

Professional matchmakers make it very clear that their service is meant only for those individuals who are interested in a long term commitment. Education, sufficient earnings do matter and are screened for in the first instance. The professional matchmaker may conduct an initial short interview to gauge if the member seems to fit within their requirements. If they do then the client undergoes an in-depth personalized interview.

Know the client in depth

The process of matchmaking is conducted in a systematic way by professional matchmakers. They know that getting a perfect match for their clients is possible only if they firstly understand them well.  What kind of a background they come from, what motivates them, what is their lifestyle, what are their goals, past relationships if any and expectations from their partner are some issues that are delved deep into by the matchmaker. This could involve a series of meetings, questionnaires, assessments etc.

Scouting for the best match

Professional matchmakers have in place a database of singles with them; however, they also use their contacts to scout for a match compatible and perfect in all respects for their client. The matches are searched for after considering varied aspects such as shared interests, objectives of marriage, and expectations from the relationship and vetted by the matchmaker before their introduction to the client. Bad experiences are eliminated as the curated matches guarantee a high degree of compatibility. The search could then very well extend overseas too!

Guide the first meeting

After scouting for the best match, professional matchmakers make all the arrangements for the first meet between their client and his or her date. Selecting the restaurant, arranging for reservation, giving pep talks wherein the client is guided on what should be asked from the match during his or her first meet are some issues that are dealt upon by the professional matchmaker.

Post meet feedback

After the first meet, the client undergoes a debriefing session with the professional matchmaker. If both parties give a go-ahead signal then the professional matchmaker reveals the feedback of the parties to one another and lets the process take its course naturally.

On a Summarizing Note

When we get a match who has qualities and attributes we admire and aim to possess we automatically evolve in life and gravitate towards success. Professional matchmakers play the role of cupid in today’s times; crafting successful love stories for their clients. The services of a professional matchmaker do not come cheap; it calls for good investment. However, this single factor assures clients that the other individual is just as invested in the process as they are. So even if their love story does not happen at the first meet they know that they have come to the right table!